He wero tonu te whakataurite i te mahi me te whaeatanga mō te tini o ngā wāhine. He nekehanga takirua wero tēnei, e ahua uaua ana i ētahi wā. He nui ake te wero mō ngā kaipakihi, nā te mea ka huri te tiaki i te pakihi hei tohu whaea, ā, ka poto ake te wā okiokinga. E mōhio ana te hunga e ora ana i tēnei ao tūturu he mea uaua ki te whakatika i ngā wā katoa; heoi, he raruraru tonu te whakatau i ngā hapa.
Nā te mea kei te kaha tonu te pēhanga i whakatakotoria e rātou anō me te pēhanga pāpori e pā ana ki te whaeatanga. He tumanako ā-ahurea me mahi ngā wāhine i ngā mahi maha, kia wātea tonu, kia pumau hoki te hinengaro, ahakoa te ngenge nui me ngā raruraru o ia rā. Ka whai wāhi tēnei pēhanga tonu ki te manukanuka, te hara, me te ngenge tinana me te hinengaro. Mō te tini, ko te kare o te hara: "I a au e mahi ana, i pouri ahau mō te kore e noho hei whaea, ā, i a au e noho hei whaea, i pouri ahau mō te kore e mahi," te kōrero a Mariana Menezes.
Ko Mariana, te whaea o Lara, e whā tau te pakeke, e whakaaroaro ana ki te whakataurite i ana kawenga. "He tukanga tēnei mō te kimi i a koe anō. Me ata noho, me whakarite, me ngāwari hoki ki te whakatutuki i ngā tono katoa, me te mārama ahakoa ngā mahi katoa, ka puta ngā hapa i ētahi wā. Ā, kāore ēnei hapa e tautuhi i a tātou hei tohunga, hei whaea rānei." I te arataki o tētahi o ngā kamupene hoko whenua me te pūtea matua, e kī ana hoki te wahine pakihi, ahakoa e whakanuia ana e ia tana mahi, ko tana tamāhine tonu tana kaupapa matua.
E mahara ana ia i te whānautanga o Lara, i tino tipu te kamupene, me tana noho tonu. "I roto a Capital Concreto i te wā tipu, ā, kāore anō kia kotahi tau te pakeke o Lara. He maha ngā wā, i tino whakapono ahau, i tino whakapono hoki he herenga tēnei. He pono tonu tēnei i tēnei rā; i ētahi wā kāore e taea e au te noho atu nā te mea e hiahia ana ia ki ahau. Nā tēnei kua māmā ake taku whanaungatanga ki a ia i tēnei rā, ehara i te mea he ngāwari. Ko taku i ako ai i te noho hei wahine pakihi me te whaea, i tēnei rā e mōhio ana ahau ki aku kaupapa matua, e mōhio ana ahau ki ngā wāhi ka taea e ētahi atu te mahi i taku mahi, me ngā wāhi kāore e taea e rātou."
Ka tūtaki te oranga o te whaea me te ara o te wahine pakihi, inā koa ka tae mai ki te kawenga, te kaiārahi, me te manawanui. I ngā āhuatanga e rua, he mea nui te whakatau i ngā whakataunga nui i ia rā, te aro atu ki ngā huihuinga ohorere, te poipoi i te whanaketanga o ētahi atu, me te noho tonu ki te taha o ngā kare ā-roto, ahakoa te ngenge. He maha ngā huarahi e rite ana te noho hei whaea ki te mahi pakihi—te haumi i te wā, te aroha, me te kaha ki tētahi kaupapa e hiahia ana te tangata kia kite i te tipu haumaru me te motuhake.
Waihoki, ko te ārahi i tētahi pakihi e hiahia ana ki te whakapau kaha, te whakamahere, me te urutau tonu—he uara hoki ēnei e tino hira ana i roto i te whaea. Ko tēnei taupatupatu o ngā tūranga e whakaatu ana, ahakoa ngā wero, he kaha motuhake kei roto i ngā wāhine e kawe ana i ngā mahi e rua, e hanga ana i ngā hononga i waenga i te aroha me te rautaki, i waenga i te manaaki me te whakahaere.
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